Treatment Services for Parents & Families

At McCallum Place, we value the important role the patient’s support system has in the treatment process and encourage loved ones to partner with our clinical team in becoming part of the solution. We recognize higher recovery rates are often associated with providing loved ones the support and education they need to be part of the recovery process and treatment works best when the family is involved. We have specifically designed the following family programs because we believe loved ones are a great resource to one struggling with an eating disorder.

McCallum Place Family Education and Support Programs

Family Sessions

Families of adult patients are strongly encouraged to meet with the patient’s clinical team on a regular basis. Please call or email the patient’s assigned therapist and assigned psychiatrist to schedule your family sessions in advance.

All families of minors (patients under the age of 18 years old), will have weekly family sessions. This session can be facilitated in a mode that best meets a particular family’s needs (e.g., via phone, or shorter sessions of 30 minutes, etc.).

Multifamily Weekly Support Group

McCallum Place St. Louis

Day: Monday
Time: 4:30pm-5:30pm
Location: McCallum Place Conference Room
231 W. Lockwood Ave., St. Louis, MO 63119

McCallum Place offers a weekly Monday evening multifamily group. This group takes place in the McCallum Place Conference Room every Monday (excluding holidays) from 4:30 pm – 5:30 pm. There is no need to RSVP; however if you’d like to participate via phone conference, please contact Ginger Olmsted at 1-888-749-5796.

Family Based Coaching Group

McCallum Place St. Louis

Day: Friday
Time: 9:30am-10:30am
Location: McCallum Place Conference Room
231 W. Lockwood Ave., St. Louis, MO 63119

McCallum Place offers a weekly Friday morning Family Based Coaching. This group takes place in the McCallum Place Conference Room every Friday (excluding holidays) from 9:30 am – 10:30 am. There is no need to RSVP; if you’d like more information, please contact Ginger Olmsted at 1-888-749-5796. Laura Bumberry, Psy.D. – Licensed Clinical Psychologist, DBT Therapist, FBT Therapist, will facilitate the group covering skills related to supporting the adolescent patient in the recovery process.

Family Day

Don’t miss our Family Days, a comprehensive set of six distinct curricula for family, friends and significant support persons of McCallum Place patients. Each Family Day focuses on how to practically and effectively help family members best support their loved ones by looking at medical complications, research, communication strategies, resources, practical tools, and support with the time and resources families invest in eating disorder treatment.

McCallum Place St. Louis Family Day is held at our Therapy Suite, 231 W. Lockwood Ave, Ste. 201 in Webster Groves, on the third Saturday of every month from 8:00 am – 3:00 pm. Continental breakfast is provided. Reservations are strongly encouraged to help us plan for attendance. To RSVP, please contact Ginger Olmsted at 1-888-749-5796.

McCallum Place Kansas City Family Day: Every first Monday of the month! Call (314) 968-1900 for details!

Family Skills: Topics for Focus in Therapeutic Work with Families Struggling with Eating Disorders
by Dr. Kim McCallum, MD

  • Become familiar with individual core struggles
  • Understand ED Mindset and function of behaviors
  • Recognize common internal struggles that interfere with recovery
  • Recognize hungry brain and how it complicates treatment
  • Learn to cope with body image distortion
  • Model and embrace healthy eating, understand special nutritional needs of recovery
  • Learn about the role of exercise in illness and recovery
  • Be mindful of developmental concerns
  • Expect and learn to adjust to varying levels of motivation
  • Get real… know what causes eating disorders, learn to debunk myths
  • Break the silence, identify vulnerabilities in the family
  • Understand temperamental risk factors
  • Create a protective family culture; be aware of how our culture is toxic
  • Identify boundary struggles, learn how to develop healthy boundaries
  • Learn key components of treatment
  • Learn when to step in and step back
  • Learn to move towards responses with emotional balance
  • Commit to self care
  • Consider Family Based Treatment or Family Therapy

Collaborating with Family-Based Treatment Providers

Many parents approach eating disorder professionals with some caution and fear that they may be blamed for their child’s eating disorder behavior, and they sometimes express feelings of guilt, confusion, or even despair. Additionally, families may have heard stories of blame, avoidance, or exclusion from the care of their child. At McCallum Place, we are committed to involving families as vital members of the treatment team. This is particularly important for children and adolescents (we treat children as young as age 10).

At McCallum Place, families who have loved ones who are receiving treatment are asked to fully engage in the treatment process. Upon admission, we talk with patients and their loved ones about what brought them to treatment in an effort to understand the history of the eating disorder behaviors. We believe that families are experts in understanding their children, and we ask them to have a seat at the table as we discuss treatment plans and progress.

Implementing Family-Based Treatment for Eating Disorders

For some families, we believe that the best approach is Family-Based Treatment (FBT). This approach is designed to empower and educate families, and to incorporate them into the recovery process. It affirms the importance of parental authority and works to remind parents that they intuitively know how to feed their children, even if that confidence has been eroded by the intrusion of the eating disorder into the family system. The goal of the FBT model is to empower parents to embrace their role as parents and, with love and structure, guide their children back to normal eating.

Many treatment centers do not utilize the Family-Based Treatment model due to a perception that it does not integrate well with a residential treatment model. Our commitment is to collaborate with families and professionals who are using this model and incorporate the FBT principles into treatment when clinically indicated to be the best approach for the patient and family.

Empowering the Family Throughout Treatment

When it comes to Family-Based Treatment in the residential or partial (PHP/day treatment) setting, we see the role of the treatment center as providing the following:

  • A supportive environment that provides medical and nutritional care
  • Weight restoration, particularly when the child is severely underweight and has been unable to regain the weight in their current context
  • Coaching and empowerment for parents on how to support their child at meal times, through triggers, and with emotional regulation
  • Education on topics such as eating disorder behaviors, consequences, complications, weight gain, and the refeeding process

In the beginning stages of treatment, we work to educate parents on these important topics, especially if they have not been working with a professional team prior to admission. If families do come to us with an established outpatient team, we will include that team in consultation on a regular basis and incorporate their recommendations into our setting.

We also involve the family throughout the treatment stay. This includes weekly family sessions, opportunities to eat with their child, and consistent communication with our treatment team. Parents can also attend weekly skills training groups led by Dr. Laura Bumberry, a certified FBT therapist who offers additional coaching to parents while their children are in treatment.

Once the child is medically stable and has better cognitive functioning due to improved nutrition, the family is brought in to coach the child during meals while supported by the staff. Eventually, families and patients have passes together and are given opportunities to practice eating outside of the treatment setting. This practice prepares the family for the return home and supports the FBT philosophy of parents being in the ‘driver’s seat’ of the child’s recovery. In this context, the treatment center takes on the role of a supportive coach working alongside the parents to achieve a mutual goal: a child who returns home healthy.

Evolving our Family-Based Approach

In order to continue developing our Family-Based Treatment model, our clinical director, Amanda Stutz, and four other staff members attended a training event in June 2018 called “Family-Based Treatment for Adolescent Anorexia Nervosa,” hosted by the Training Institute for Child and Adolescent Eating Disorders in New Jersey. This training helped the team to evaluate and improve the effectiveness of how we collaborate with families and professionals using the Family-Based Treatment model.

Regarding how the training impacted the staff, Amanda Stutz stated, “Our goal has always been to empower parents. We walked away from the training with a recommitment to remind parents that they know how to feed their child even though the eating disorder may have temporarily prevented them from believing they know what they are doing.”

St. Louis Family Weekend

St. Louis Family Weekend

Each Family Weekend focuses on how to practically and effectively help family members best support their loved ones by looking at medical complications, research, communication strategies, resources, practical tools, and support with the time and resources families invest in eating disorder treatment.

Continental breakfast is provided on Saturday. Reservations are strongly encouraged to help us plan for attendance.

2019 Family Weekends Dates:

January 18-19
February 15-16
March 15-16
April 12-13
May 10-11
June 14-15
July 19-20
August 16-17
September 20-21
October 18-19
November 15-16
December 13-14

Schedule:

Friday 2:00 –​ 4:00 p.m – Doctor’s talk
Saturday 9:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. – family programming

Location:

231 W. Lockwood Ave, Ste. 201, Webster Groves, MO

To RSVP, please contact your loved one’s primary therapist at (314) 968-1900.

I had not found a therapist who 'got it' until I came to McCallum place.

– ES, age 26
Marks of Quality Care
  • Eating Disorder Coalition of Iowa
  • International Association Of Eating Disorders Professionals (IAEDP)
  • National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD)
  • National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA)
  • RenewED, Eating Disorders Support
  • Washington University in St. Louis